These three steps compose a melody of resilience, guiding us through the ebbs and flows.

Navigating the Storm: Unwinding Stress with Three Simple Steps

Dec 13, 2023 | General Health

Life, in its unpredictable dance, often sends a cascade of stress our way, and when it does, finding the calm amidst the chaos becomes an invaluable skill. Here’s my tried-and-tested three-step ritual of navigating the tempest of negative thoughts and rediscovering tranquillity.

Step 1: Acknowledge The Emotion

The first step is perhaps the most challenging – acknowledging the emotion. It’s all too easy to resort to behaviours that numb or distract us from the discomfort. But the true magic happens when we muster the courage to face our emotions head-on. It’s like turning on the light in a dark room – clarity begins to seep in.

Feeling Through the Emotion

Feeling through the emotion is a journey within. It’s recognizing the waves of emotion, understanding their nuances, and allowing them to pass through without judgment. In this step, we untangle ourselves from the urge to escape, embracing the vulnerability that comes with acknowledging our feelings.

Step 2: Find Safety Through Nervous System Regulation

The key to navigating the storm lies in regulating the nervous system. It’s about creating an environment where the nervous system feels safe. When we achieve this, a remarkable transformation occurs – our minds clear, and suddenly, even the most daunting situations reveal the potential for growth.

Favourite Tools


  • Whether it’s a guided session or a few minutes of mindful breathing, meditation is a powerful ally. It acts as a sanctuary where we can retreat to find stillness amidst the chaos.


  • Tapping, or Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), involves gentle tapping on specific acupressure points. It’s a unique way to signal safety to the nervous system, promoting emotional release and mental clarity.


  • Harnessing technology to gain insights into physiological responses, biofeedback empowers us to consciously regulate our body’s reactions to stress. It’s a fascinating tool that bridges the gap between mind and body awareness.


  • The breath is a conduit to the present moment. Breathwork techniques, from deep belly breathing to intentional breath patterns, are effective in signalling safety to the nervous system and calming the mind.

Step 3: Gratitude

As the storm subsides, gratitude becomes the anchor that grounds us in positivity. Speaking aloud all the things we’re grateful for in the situation shifts the narrative from negativity to appreciation.

Cultivating Gratitude

I consciously redirect my thoughts whenever they threaten to veer back into negativity. It’s a simple act of acknowledging the things going right, the silver linings that might be obscured by the storm clouds. Gratitude isn’t just a platitude; it’s a potent tool for rewiring the brain and fostering a positive outlook.

In the symphony of life, these three steps compose a melody of resilience, guiding us through the ebbs and flows. As you embark on your journey of unwinding stress, remember that within these steps lies the power to transform not just how you feel but how you navigate the unpredictable dance of life itself.

Be well,


Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is not meant to replace treatment with a licensed health care practitioner. It is for informational purposes only. Consult with a licensed health care professional to determine which treatments are safe for you.

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